tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7211930845196147146.post6744283681979702436..comments2023-08-20T07:51:07.341-07:00Comments on Abigail's Road to Nowhere: Anger, Sadness and Moving OnUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7211930845196147146.post-38463240102835037552012-01-27T14:22:03.713-08:002012-01-27T14:22:03.713-08:00Hearing you work through your grief has moved me t...Hearing you work through your grief has moved me to tears, which seems strange, because I never understood the yearning people have for children, but I've suffered losses that are similar, I suppose, and I know how brilliant life can be once you work through the really hard fucked up shit.<br /><br />You're rocking it, Anna.Elan Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03023867307505601913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7211930845196147146.post-19694398772809149162012-01-26T11:59:15.516-08:002012-01-26T11:59:15.516-08:00:( Awe Anna. I couldn't imagine the pain you&#...:( Awe Anna. I couldn't imagine the pain you've been through.<br /><br />I know you probably have all too many people with their two cents. Coming from an adoptee and a mom, seriously consider adoption. It's apparently a long process, but so is everything. I believe if you want children to be a part of your lives, you have to make it happen somehow. I don't blame you about the fertility stuff, but adopted children are no less, your's.<br /><br />Wish you the best through all of this, and strength in whatever decisions you make.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02073135299273906887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7211930845196147146.post-68035798776678417482012-01-24T13:11:13.524-08:002012-01-24T13:11:13.524-08:00Oh, Jules, you're making me cry. Thanks for th...Oh, Jules, you're making me cry. Thanks for the kind words, it really is nice to hear.Abigail Roadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07012285919607936159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7211930845196147146.post-4350845272437355062012-01-24T05:47:21.724-08:002012-01-24T05:47:21.724-08:00Good luck hun.Good luck hun.miss.nicolanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7211930845196147146.post-23801207268934537352012-01-23T23:47:08.576-08:002012-01-23T23:47:08.576-08:00Anger is part of the healing. It's ok to be an...Anger is part of the healing. It's ok to be angry at all these things. <br /><br />It's also ok to enjoy the life you have right now. This part is harder than the anger, because it feels weird to miss someone so much it hurts while going on with life. <br /><br />To my mind you ARE parents. Just because your baby isn't in your arms doesn't mean you are any less a mother, or zach less a father, than parents with a living child. The feelings of love and joy, sadness, heartbreak, and anger; you felt those as a mother and once you have that title it can never be taken away. <br /><br />Sorry I am getting all gushy on you now. If you ever want to talk I am here. K says hello and sends his love. <br /><br />((hugs))Julian@connectedmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12934165855070000724noreply@blogger.com